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Love in a Coffee Cup

So, this happened today.

Manning the rails

I’m doing okay, really. I think I am in complete denial about the whole thing, to be honest. We’ll see how I am two weeks from now. In the meantime, I have a little story about yesterday.

If you know my husband at all, you know that he is what I affectionately call a “coffee snob.” I am not kidding. He lived in Italy for 4 1/2 years and learned to make cappuccinos from a barista at the place down the street from his apartment. We buy Illy coffee (among others) and he has two grinders (a manual and an electric) and (I am not exaggerating) five coffee makers. He has temperature gauges, frothing cups and espresso spoons. And one of the things he does for me is that he makes the coffee.

J is the sort that expresses love more through small actions than through words or gifts. You have to know what to watch for sometimes. And every morning that he has time, he makes me coffee (if I want it) or tea (if I don’t). It’s one of his gifts for me, and I love that about him.

Well, he’s gone now for a while (thanks, US Navy!) and I am left with lots of coffee making equipment and no barista in the house. I do know how to use all of these things but when I just want a cup of coffee, a simple cup and not a whole pot, it’s an awful lot of trouble. It’s time consuming. It’s messy. This is why he does it for me.

And so yesterday while we were out enjoying our last free day together, he took me to an appliance store.

And he bought me a one-cup-brewer.

It’s one of those automated deals where all I have to do is fill the reservoir and choose the flavor I want and it automatically makes the drink for me. All I have to do is throw away the used coffee packet at the end.

While it may seem random (and strange for a coffee snob like mine to purchase), by giving me this little gadget, he has given me coffee for the entire time he’s away. No mess, no fuss. It’s a little way to still take care of me even when he can’t be here.

Dress whites on board

I have love in my coffee cup. What’s in yours? ^_^


If you want more info about the ship getting underway, here are some Navy photos and a video you can have.

2 thoughts on “Love in a Coffee Cup”

  1. Hey Jo! Sally’s daughter, Lynn, has one of those one-cup brewers and it makes the BEST coffee on earth! That was such a sweet thing of J to do for you! You are blessed. Have enjoyed reading your blog re: the paintball contest, and looking at all your pictures on FB. Right now, getting ready for your parents, who just called and will be arriving around 7:00 p.m. (they worked half a day today). I know they are still on the Stillman diet, so we’re having broiled Salmon, broccoli, squash, and salad with blue cheese dressing. Hope you are well and not too blue with J away. We’ll try to come see you while he is gone!!! Love you much, AR ^_^


  2. Awwwww this is so sweet!
    *I know this is a way old post, but it was suggested at the bottom of your most recent one.


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